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Letting Go is Knowing That There’s a Future

Fall Trees


“Holding on is believing that there’s only a past;
letting go is knowing that there’s a future.”
–Daphne Rose Kingma

I enjoyed creating this Visual Inspiration for you today — in keeping with our theme of the month, “Letting Go.” It features one of my favorite quotes by Daphne Rose Kigma, author of many best-selling books, including “True Love,” “Loving Yourself: Four Steps to a Happier You,” The Ten Things to Do When Your Life Falls Apart,” and “When You Think You’re Not Enough.”

I’ve paired her quotation with a favorite photo of mine taken a few years ago, in the lush, rolling hills and valleys of the Finger Lakes Region of Upstate New York.

I hope you enjoy it ♥

Letting Go

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Soulfully,
Valerie

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Letting Go

Valerie Rickel

“All endings are inexorably tied to new beginnings. That’s the
nature of the journey. It continues to unfold. It builds on
itself. It can’t help itself from doing that. Cherish the moments,
all of them. You have seen and felt much in life so far. But still,
the best is yet to come.”
—Melody Beattie

Happy October! I’m excited to announce our theme for the month of October: “Letting Go.” It’s a topic I’ve always been passionate about, particularly the “moving forward” stage and the “new beginnings” that follow the “letting go.”

 Happy October!

Today, I’m pleased to share a wonderful article with you by SoulfulLiving.com Columnist, Laura V. Grace, called “Letting Go.”

Laura is a spiritual counselor and author of “Gifts of the Soul” and “The Intimate Soul.” Her article will help you find those areas of your life that you may wish to let go of and also offers you the encouragement and techniques to do so!

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Laura Grace“Letting Go”
by Laura Grace

Letting go is perhaps one of the most difficult challenges we face. Our egos easily and all too eagerly attach to things, people, and outcome. Letting go of these attachments can be painful, particularly when we can’t see what’s ahead. Throughout the years, many clients have shared how they have a “back-up person” waiting in the wings just in case their current relationship ends. The fear of the unknown (and being alone), for some, creates feelings that are intolerable. Having “plan B” in place may mitigate some of the fear, but it doesn’t address the real fear: letting go.

I have always found the metaphor of a closed fist and open hand helpful; a closed fist represents our resistance to letting go, while an open hand symbolizes our willingness to embrace the present and future. Moving from a closed fist to an open hand is a process. It requires patience and the willingness to release what no longer serves us. The choice to let go allows us to follow the pathway to our soul.

Life is a series of things to let go of-our friends and loved ones, our children as they grow, our youth, our perceptions of ourselves. In my own life, I have found myself having to let go more these past few years than ever before. In the last two years, I have been faced with letting go of my daughter, twice. First, when she graduated from high school and moved in with her best friend, and second, when I moved from Michigan to California (she still resides in the Midwest). Moving away also meant letting go of friends, clients, and my home base where I was born and raised. Less than a year after moving, my father passed away and I was confronted with letting go on an even deeper level. Was any of this easy? No-in fact I’m still working my way through some of it. But, I’m discovering that as long as I keep an open hand (and heart), my experience of letting go is much less stressful. In fact, I remain inspired to let go, knowing that I’m clearing the pathway for my soul to continue its journey and fulfill its destiny.

What do you need to let go of? Perhaps there is a self-limiting or destructive pattern that needs to be released, or maybe you feel compelled to pursue a dream that requires letting go of the work you’re currently performing. The important thing to remember is that no matter how daunting it may feel, you possess an inner strength and courage that is greater than any situation. Courage is about letting go and moving forward, not in the absence of fear, but in the presence of it. When you realize the inner power you possess, you can let go of your attachments. This doesn’t mean that you don’t work your hardest for the highest outcome, but rather, that you do your best and leave the rest to Spirit.

What is it time to release? You have two choices; you can either try to hold onto the past with a closed fist, or you can choose to embrace today with an open hand. As you already know, the former will cause you (and others) unnecessary pain and suffering, while the latter might trigger some fear of the unknown, yet provide rich, new experiences for your heart and soul. Which will you choose?

Affirmations for Letting Go

The past is over; I plan for tomorrow and live for today.
All my experiences are allowing me to become a stronger and wiser person.
As I let go of attachments, I create room for fulfilling and soulful experiences.
I let go easily for I trust that new and exciting opportunities are on their way.

Copyright Laura Grace. All Rights Reserved.

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Visual Inspiration: Before the Fall

Fall Trees

Yet, every now and then,
when the world sits just right ~
that gentle breath of heaven
fills my soul with delight,
and I see,

a turning of a leaf
dancing in the autumn’s sun,
and a brilliant shade of crimson
glowing when the day is done…

–Hazelmarie Elliott

Happy Monday! Today is our final day of exploring “Inner Peace,” so I selected this lovely quote for today’s Visual Inspiration, because it blends the theme of autumn with the feelings of inner peace, bliss, and delight so perfectly! It certainly describes how my soul feels when I gaze upon the beautiful pageantry of fall colors in the NorthEast (and in Upstate New York, in particular).

This photo was taken last week, on the first day of autumn, minutes before the official start of autumn this year, at 4:44 pm EDT, September 22nd. It was one of the last photos I got to take that day, as I took it just prior to my unfortunate injury. Hence the title, “Before the Fall.” My friend and I had driven to the lake in Downtown Inlet in the Adirondack Mtns — “Fourth Lake,” in the chain of “Fulton Lakes,” to be exact, to celebrate the beginning of the season with a special meditation on the pier. Inlet is a perfect little mountain town, just a little north of Old Forge, where there is no cell phone signal and a population of just 333. A blissful spot to celebrate autumn… before or after a fall…

I hope you enjoy the Visual Inspiration ♥

Autumn Trees

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Video: Eckhart Tolle on How to Silence Your Mind

Valerie Rickel

“Whenever you deeply accept this moment as it is — no matter what form it takes — you are still, you are at peace.”
—Eckhart Tolle

Happy Friday! I’m very excited to share today’s video with you.

In this brief, yet powerful interview, Oprah Winfrey speaks with Eckhart Tolle, the best-selling author of The Power of Now, about his techniques for silencing the mind.

You’re sure to take away some useful and actionable tips! Enjoy ♥

If you enjoyed the video, you might also enjoy two articles by Eckhart Tolle we have published at SoulfulLiving.com:  You Are Not Your Mind and Stillness Speaks.

And, if you’re feeling inspired, I’d love to have you leave a comment below!


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Valerie Rickel, Founder
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Visual Inspiration: Muddy Water, Let Stand, Becomes Clear

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“Muddy water, let stand, becomes clear.”
–Lao Tzu

I loved creating today’s Visual Inspiration for you. This is one of my most favorite quotes. It was shared with me by a dear friend, Father Paul Keenan, who used to write a column for SoulfulLiving.com, but who passed away five years ago. I remember telling Father Paul about a dream I had about “water” and “inner peace” and he emailed me this quote. I’ll never forget that. Such a beautiful soul. I miss him so much!

I took this photo in the Adirondack Mountains early last autumn, one evening at twilight. I was living in a cabin not far from this body of water. The emotions that wash over me, as I gaze at this photo today, connect me so clearly to that moment. It triggers feelings of deep peace, silence, calmness, and tranquility. Blissful!

I hope you enjoy the Visual Inspiration as much as I enjoyed creating it!  ♥

Muddy Water, Let Stand, Becomes Clear

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Guest Blog: Choosing Serenity on a Daily Basis

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“The life of inner peace, being harmonious and without stress, is the easiest type of existence.”

—Norman Vincent Peale

I’m very pleased to share a guest blog with you today by Suzanne Zoglio, PhD, executive coach, speaker, and author of “Recharge in Minutes : The Quick-Lift Way to Less Stress, More Success, and Renewed Energy” and “Create A Life That Tickles Your Soul: Finding Peace, Passion, and Purpose.”

In her article, “Choosing Serenity on a Daily Basis,” Suzanne offers us guidance and tips on how to find inner peace and stillness within the stress, chaos and busyness of everyday life. Enjoy!

Sue Zoglio“Choosing Serenity on a Daily Basis”
By Suzanne Zoglio, PhD

When you think of serenity, what image appears? A monk on a mountaintop? A roomful of meditators? Perhaps you see yourself blissfully sitting by a stream in the woods? Whatever the image, it likely depicts a place of silence. We often think of “getting away from it all” to “find” inner peace. But do those two thoughts–getting away and finding–actually increase the likelihood of our living a life of inner peace? I think not.

First, if we believe that serenity is something to be found…only by the lucky ones, rather than the natural state that it is, available to each and every one of us, we will keep looking for it somewhere “out there.” But, in fact, serenity is always “within,” not something we win in some spiritual lottery, but something we experience to greater and lesser degrees depending upon the decisions we make. We can choose to live our days in ways that illuminate and nurture this blissful state or we can follow the well-worn path of turmoil, chaos, and conflict, hoping that we’ll stumble on serenity one day.

Secondly, if we believe that serenity is inextricably linked to “getting away from it all,” we limit our expectations (and therefore our actions) of when and where we can experience inner peace. We relegate it to meditation sessions, Yoga classes, weekend retreats, or perhaps a week at the beach. Such a paradigm makes us victims of daily stress and encourages an ineffective wait-for-vacation method of refueling and rejuvenation.

So, what if we were to shift these two paradigms? What if we were to see serenity as a precious gem that twinkles within us…a treasure that we can unwrap whenever we want to for a quick lift or a luxurious basking in its brilliance? Now, that kind of thinking promotes thoughts and actions that give rise to living in serenity on a daily basis. Just imagine.

When you find your mind in overdrive, instead of accepting it as your “normal” state, you take power breaks that lift you up and let your serenity shine through. You begin each day with clear intent, before the day’s busyness tosses you about like a leaf in the wind. You stop during the day to take focusing breaks. You stop, breathe, and remember what’s important. You don’t wait for more time to plan and prioritize. Instead, you ask what’s important next, today, in this moment. You weed out the day’s “shoulds” and knee-jerk commitments that we all reactively make. You let go of all that is neither rewarding to you nor important to your mission. So, in a series of quick centering moments–perhaps in less time that it takes for a coffee break–serenity envelops you.

When fear, anxiety, or worry seem to creep into your day, instead of carrying the weight as a burden, something that cannot be undone without therapy, time, or divine intervention, you do not wait. Instead you remember that serenity is your natural state, so take appropriate action to remove whatever is blocking that inner peace. Perhaps you stop to say a prayer, repeat an empowering affirmation. Maybe you forgive someone or act with compassion for another. Perhaps you “go to the balcony” as I like to say, and remember the many mountains you have climbed in the past, or you take an objective look at your current state and rate it on a scale of 1-10. Maybe you ask for help or guidance, or simply surrender your worry to the universe…

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Guest Article: “Be Still” by Laura Grace

Valerie Rickel

“The quieter you become the more you can hear. “
Ram Dass

Happy Monday! Today, I’m pleased to share a wonderful article with you by SoulfulLiving.com Columnist, Laura V. Grace, called “Be Still.”

Laura is a spiritual counselor and author of “Gifts of the Soul” and “The Intimate Soul.” Her article will help you find inner stillness, inner peace, and inner guidance.

Enjoy ♥

Laura Grace“Be Still”
by Laura Grace

As I write this, I am in the middle of making an important decision regarding an opportunity that has surfaced. The time for finalizing my decision is drawing close, yet at this point in time, I am still unclear as to what the best decision is. I have been trying a myriad of decision-making approaches: letting go of attachment to outcome, discussing it with my partner, journaling about it, and so forth. Yet I know in my heart (and from past experience), that the only true method for making a decision that  supports the greatest good of everyone involved–is to ask for inner guidance. The answer that my soul seeks will not come from anyone or anything outside myself, but from deep within, and that requires becoming still. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross once wisely penned the following words of wisdom, “Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself, and know that everything in life has purpose. There are no mistakes, no coincidences, all events are blessings given to us to learn from.”

Being still entails quieting the senses enough so that we may hear our soul. The soul speaks quietly, so we must enter our inner sanctuary, close the door, and be still where no one can see us. When we are alone, the guidance may reveal itself, something that will never happen in public. Why? Because when we’re around others our ego is on display, even in the presence of loved ones.  Thus it’s not necessary for us to try and access our deepest truth within, our only focus needs to be on settling into an atmosphere of faith and hope, trusting that the highest answer will surface when we are perfectly still.

The same thing is true for meditation; since Love’s Presence is within us, everywhere, at all times, we need only be willing to still our senses and patiently wait for the contact to occur. We are not trying to reach anything, but to achieve a state of such stillness that the awareness of Love permeates us.  Only in the sacredness of inward silence does the soul truly reveal the answers we long to hear.

For most of us, being still is not an easy thing to achieve. The amount of stimuli in our society is staggering, not to mention all of the noise from our own thoughts! There are so many diversions to becoming still, that it must be a priority for it even to occur. In his book Practicing the Presence, spiritual mystic Joel Goldsmith writes, “It takes constant turning within to tear away the veil of illusion, the middle-wall partition which seems to separate us. How speedily we pierce the veil has no relationship to our human goodness…It has relationship only to the depth of our desire to make contact.” The middle-wall partition represents all of the distractions we experience which prevent us from connecting with our soul. It’s the need to keep busy–so busy, that we never become still. But with persistence and practice, it will occur…

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Every Leaf Speaks Bliss to Me

“Every leaf speaks bliss to me, fluttering from the autumn tree.”
—Emily Bronte

Autumn Quote

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Valerie Rickel
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Book Recommendations for Inner Peace

Valerie Rickel

“Nothing can bring you peace but yourself.”
—Ralph Waldo Emerson

I’m very excited to share my favorite books on the subject of “inner peace” with you today. These are books that have helped me find inner peace over the years, and it is my hope that they will offer the same help and guidance to you.

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Dalai Lama's Little Book of Inner PeaceDalai Lama’s Little Book of Inner Peace”
by His Holiness The Dalai Lama

His Holiness the Dalai Lama offers powerful, profound advice on how to live a peaceful and fulfilling life amidst all the conflicts of the modern world.

In this distillation of his life and teachings, the Dalai Lama paints a compelling portrait of his early life, reflecting on the personal and political struggles that have helped to shape his understanding of our world. Offering his wisdom and experience to interpret the timeless teachings of the Buddha, The Dalai Lama’s Little Book of Inner Peace is fresh and relevant to our troubled times. He explains in a simple and accessible way how each of us can influence those around us by living with integrity. And he holds out hope that, through personal transformation, we can all contribute to a better world.


Peace is Every Step by Thich Nhat HanhPeace Is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life
by  Thich Nhat Hanh

In the rush of modern life, we tend to lose touch with the peace that is available in each moment. World-renowned Zen master, spiritual leader, and author Thich Nhat Hanh shows us how to make positive use of the very situations that usually pressure and antagonize us. For him a ringing telephone can be a signal to call us back to our true selves. Dirty dishes, red lights, and traffic jams are spiritual friends on the path to “mindfulness” — the process of keeping our consciousness alive to our present experience and reality. The most profound satisfactions, the deepest feelings of joy and completeness lie as close at hand as our next aware breath and the smile we can form right now.

Lucidly and beautifully written, Peace Is Every Step contains commentaries and meditations, personal anecdotes and stories from Nhat Hanh’s experiences as a peace activist, teacher, and community leader. It begins where the reader already is — in the kitchen, office, driving a car, walking — and shows how deep meditative presence is available now.


The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself  by Michael A. Singer The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself
by Michael A. Singer

What would it be like to free yourself from limitations and soar beyond your boundaries? What can you do each day to discover inner peace and serenity? The Untethered Soul — now a New York Times bestseller — offers simple yet profound answers to these questions. Whether this is your first exploration of inner space, or you’ve devoted your life to the inward journey, this book will transform your relationship with yourself and the world around you. You’ll discover what you can do to put an end to the habitual thoughts and emotions that limit your consciousness.

By tapping into traditions of meditation and mindfulness, author and spiritual teacher Michael A. Singer shows how the development of consciousness can enable us all to dwell in the present moment and let go of painful thoughts and memories that keep us from achieving happiness and self-realization.


The Voice of Knowledge: A Practical Guide to Inner Peace  by Don Miguel RuizThe Voice of Knowledge: A Practical Guide to Inner Peace
by Don Miguel Ruiz

The Voice of Knowledge is the fourth book in the Toltec Wisdom series by the best-selling author of The Four Agreements. Don Miguel Ruiz explores the concept of “impeccability of the word” as a simple yet potent prescription for countering the judgmental inner “voice of knowledge.” Adhering to “the word” — saying only what you mean, refusing to speak against you — allows anyone to transform those inner tyrannical thoughts into a voice of self-trust and integrity. Knowledge then becomes an ally, and life becomes an expression of the authentic self.


At Home in the Muddy Water by Ezra BaydaAt Home in the Muddy Water: A Guide to Finding Peace Within Everyday Chaos
by Ezra Bayda

“May we exist like a lotus,  At home in the muddy water.  Thus we bow to life as it is”

The above verse is an important reminder, says Ezra Bayda, of what the spiritual life is truly about: the willingness to open ourselves to whatever life presents — no matter how messy or complicated. And through that willingness to be open, we can discover wisdom, compassion, and the genuine life we all want. In At Home in the Muddy Water, Bayda applies this simple Zen teaching to a range of everyday concerns — including relationships, trust, sexuality, and money — showing that everything we need to practice is right here before us, and that peace and fulfillment is available to everyone, right here, right now, no matter what their circumstances.

I hope you enjoy your reading!
Valerie Rickel
Founder and Soul
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A harvest of peace is produced from a seed of contentment

Valerie


“A harvest of peace is produced from a seed of contentment.”
(Kashmiri Proverb)

I loved creating this Visual Inspiration for you today — in keeping with our theme of the month, “Inner Peace.” This photo is very special to me, as I remember the experience of capturing the image so vividly. It was a mid-autumn day several years ago, in the late afternoon, and the sun was casting her magical late-afternoon light all over this gorgeous farm field in Upstate New York. The clouds in the sky were ominous. I remember how when I saw this surreal scene, with its blissful light and rich colors, I felt such a strong connection to the Divine. It was an Eternal moment. My Nirvana. It was just so beautiful, I was overcome with emotion.

My search to find a quotation to match this special photo turned out to be no easy task, however. I wanted a quote themed around “autumn” and “finding inner peace.” I had difficulty finding one and almost gave up, but with a just little further searching, I found this one and knew it was meant to be!!

I hope you enjoy the Visual Inspiration as much as I enjoyed creating it!  ♥

Peace Harvest

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Valerie

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Guest Blog: Finding Peace in the Silience of Your Heart

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“Have patience with everything that remains unsolved in your heart….live in the question.”
—Rainer Maria Rilke

I’m pleased to be able to share a guest blog by one of SoulfulLiving.com’s long-time columnists, Rob Ragozzine, Numerologist, radio host, and author of our column, What’s Your Number?

Today, Rob shares a special article on finding inner peace in the stillness and silence of your heart.

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Rob Ragozzine“Finding Inner Peace in the Silence of Your Heart”

By Rob Ragozzine

Are you ready to bring more calm, ease and tranquility into your life? Like many people, you’re probably very busy, with little time to share between yourself, your relationships and pure silence. But, silence can foster inner peace. And, with inner peace, you may be able to better manage your life.

Help can come from activities that allow you to step out of the static, busyness and hyper activity that are often thrust upon us in daily life. Simple breathing techniques can be very effective. Or, you can use specific meditative techniques that speak to you.

Sitting in a comfortable chair in silence works for me. I light a candle and may focus lightly on it. Occasionally, I will play music, but most of the time I simply sit quietly and allow myself to be in the moment. Some days I can sit for a long time, while others I only sit for a short span. But, I always feel better after sitting in silence, no matter the duration.

We all struggle with periods of upset, unease or chaos. But, finding inner peace is not impossible. You may find stillness and peace for just moments at first, but this space can gradually grow with time, patience, dedication, and practice.

Meditating, or simply finding time for silence, can facilitate calmness, slowing down and connecting inward. As you connect inward you can begin to pay closer attention to the guidance of your heart. Dismissing its guidance often leads to greater instability, disquiet and unease.

You can create inner chaos when you force yourself to live in a restricted way, rather than allowing yourself to be expansive and open to greater possibilities. This starts with your heart. How can you begin incorporating your heart’s direction  in your life? How can you welcome its compassion?

Spending time in silence and truly listening to the guidance of your heart can add depth and meaning to your life. You can begin by just sitting in silence. It doesn’t have to be complex and the process can help you to connect with the mystery within your life. Just be curious.

Many of us today find it difficult, if not impossible, to find even a moment of stillness. This keeps us struggling with ourselves, and disconnected in our relationships.

Inner peace is found when you can connect inward, forgive yourself, become curious, and begin to look at the burdens — often unnecessary ones — that you needlessly take on. What do you really want? As you recognize your self-made obstacles to freedom and peace, you can begin to release them from your life.  You can begin to forgive yourself and let go of those situations which keep you disconnected and separate from your heart.

One step to take today is to record the yearnings of your heart and begin to find a way to bring those things into your life. Some of the actions will be simple. Other actions will be less so, but they are still vital for you to pursue. Some steps may seem so big that you feel foolish or silly even to imagine undertaking them, but have faith in yourself and your abilities. You can get there. You may have to practice forgiveness and compassion first. You may need to let go of the inner battle. Decide that it’s time to stop fighting yourself, believe that you have purpose, and believe that your voice matters.

Your heart has a message. Are you willing to find the time to listen? If a goal seems insurmountable you can bring an object that symbolizes it into your life. For instance, you might bring in poetry about parenting, if you are single and have a desire to be a parent. Or, you might bring in a book about the life of someone who has taken the steps you wish to take in your life.

Most importantly, have patience, compassion, and belief in your heart and its guidance. Take each day one moment at a time. Allow time for stillness. Honor and listen to your inner wisdom. Make peace with yourself and where you are now. Believe that life is mysterious, magic, expanding, and rich. From this place, your heart can help you open to new possibilities. Life can then become less restrictive and stress focused and more expansive, calm, rewarding, and blissful.

Copyright 2013 Rob Ragozzine.

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Inner Peace: The Path with Heart

Valerie Rickel

“When we’re at peace with ourselves, we can see more clearly, act more effectively, bring greater harmony to our relationships and greater peace to our world.”
—Diane Dreher, Ph.D.

Today, I’m very excited to share several wonderful essays with you on the topic of inner peace by author Diane Dreher, Ph.D. These essays are excerpted from her article “Inner Peace: The Path with Heart,” which was previously published at SoulfulLiving.com.

The Tao of Inner PeaceDiane is the author of “The Tao of Inner Peace,” in which she translates the ancient Eastern philosophy of Taoism into a plan for contemporary living. She is also the author of “The Tao of Womanhood: Ten Lessons for Power and Peace.”

Her article offers many meaningful and easy-to-implement methods for integrating the teachings of the Tao into daily living to create more peaceful and balanced lives. I hope you enjoy it ♥

Diane Dreher“The Tao of Inner Peace”
by Diane Dreher, Ph.D.


Peace Begins Within

We can begin to transform our world by first transforming ourselves. This cannot be accomplished by merely reading or thinking about peace. Living the Tao is more than an intellectual exercise. It is the path with heart.

The Chinese character x_ n means both mind and heart, the source of all thought, feeling, and motivation. Following the Tao, there is no inner split, no agonizing struggle between head and heart, no discord or division in spirit. For, quite simply, when we are divided within ourselves, we cannot be at peace.

Instead of waiting for the right guru or political leader to bring us the peace we seek, the Tao asks us to take responsibility for our lives, to follow its mindful blend of action and contemplation. Through a shift of attitude, we can begin to experience greater peace right now.


Focus on Your Feelings

As strange as it seems, many of us get so busy, we lose touch with our feelings. Or we try to force ourselves to feel what we “should” feel, our hearts and minds going off in different directions. This builds up tremendous internal tension and undermines our peace.

  • Take a moment to ask yourself, “Where am I not at peace?” Focus on this area.
  • Whatever situation or feelings come up, acknowledge them. Take another deep breath and focus on what you feel.
  • Then breathe in compassion for yourself. Love yourself whatever you’re feeling whether it is pain, frustration, exhaustion, anger, or disappointment. Breathe into your feelings and slowly surround yourself with the warm, healing light of love.
  • Say to yourself silently, “I love and accept myself right now.”

After acknowledging where you are not at peace, gently shift your attention to what peace feels like. The simplest way is to breathe out tension and breathe in peace.


Breathe in Peace

  • Relax, take a deep breath, and say to yourself as you breathe in, “Breathe in Peace.” Remember the last time you felt a deep sense of peace and oneness. Let that feeling flow through your body.
  • Breathe out any fear, confusion, insecurity, or whatever is troubling you.
  • When you feel relaxed, affirm, “I choose to live in Peace.”

Your conscious choice opens up new possibilities for a more peaceful life. As you draw upon the infinite source of peace within, new insights will come to you, perhaps now, perhaps later. But know that with these simple steps you have already begun a powerful process of renewal.


The Tao of Self-Acceptance

Many of us are not at peace because at some deep level, we do not accept ourselves. While trying to fit someone else’s expectations, we go against the grain, defying our own nature. The natural wisdom of Tao calls us back to ourselves. In the natural world everything is valuable, everything has its place. Only human beings suffer from low self-esteem. A rose, a daisy, a lark, a squirrel–each manifests its potential differently, yet beautifully. Each form has its own expression, each flower its own fragrance, each bird its own song.


The Tao of Personal Balance

We can bring greater peace to our lives by maintaining our own personal balance. Each day we meet our physical needs: eating and sleeping at regular intervals. People who follow the Tao also make time for spiritual renewal. If we neglect our bodies, they become imbalanced and break down. If we neglect our spiritual needs, we become emotionally imbalanced and our world breaks down in continual conflict.

There are many ways to nurture our spirits from traditional religious practice to regular meditation, devotional reading, or quiet walks in nature. Some people find spiritual renewal weaving tapestries, singing, or working in their gardens. What nourishes you? Remember to nurture your spirit this way on a regular basis.

Most spiritual practice takes us away from the noisy, busy outside world, returning us to the center of peace deep within us. Moments of reflection enable our roots to go deep to the source, drawing upon the infinite power and wisdom of Tao. This month, remember to give yourself the gift of peace by following your favorite spiritual practice, cultivating periods of contemplation, and taking short “inner peace breaks,” to breathe in peace and listen to your heart.


Seeking the Silence

Taking time for contemplation may seem like self-indulgence when we’re caught up in a busy rush of activities. Yet it’s one of the most responsible things we can do. When we’re confused and uncentered, we make foolish choices, over commit ourselves, and project inner conflicts into the world around us. When we’re at peace with ourselves, we can see more clearly, act more effectively, bring greater harmony to our relationships and greater peace to our world.

The early Taoists revered tortoises because they know when to withdraw unto themselves, when to restore their energy. Thus, they live to an advanced age. Believed to have mysterious powers, tortoise shells were used in divination, inspiring the hexagram patterns of the I Ching. We can cultivate inner peace by following the lesson of the tortoise, setting aside brief periods for peace and renewal.

For most of us this means seeking out times of silence. Gandhi kept a day of silence once a week. No matter what happened or who came to visit, he would spend that day quietly, communicating to others only in writing. Most of us are unable to maintain an entire day of silence, but we can establish regular periods of meditation…

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Let Things Flow Naturally Forward

Valerie Rickel

“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them – that only creates sorrow.
Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.”
—Lao Tzu

Happy Monday! I’m excited to share a Visual Inspiration with you today, featuring one of my favorite quotes by ancient Chinese philosopher and founder of Taoism, Lao Tzu.

These words resonate with me so much. I’ve always found peace and joy when I allow things to flow naturally in my life. Do you find this to be true, too?

This photo was taken in the Adirondacks of New York by a good friend of mine and seems to convey the message of this quote quite perfectly.

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Visual Inspiration: Watch the Leaves Turn

“Even if something is left undone, everyone must take time to sit still and watch the leaves turn.”
—Elizabeth Lawrence

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Video: Oprah Interviews Thich Nhat Hanh

Valerie Rickel

“The mind can go in a thousand directions, but on this beautiful path, I walk in peace.
With each step, the wind blows. With each step, a flower blooms.”
—Thich Nhat Hanh

I’m so pleased to be able to share today’s video with you. In this extraordinary and powerful presentation, Oprah Winfrey interviews Vietnamese Zen Buddhist monk, teacher, author, poet and peace activist, Thich Nhat Hanh, as part of her Super Soul Sunday television program.

Thich Nhat Hanh’s presence, light, inner peace, and joy is sure to delight, inspire, and move you. This beautiful video is a true treasure, and I know you are going to love it.

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Thich Nhat Hanh is the author of over 100 books. If you would like to learn more about his teachings, you might enjoy one of these popular titles:


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